You must look confident when you dance, but that doesn’t mean you really are!! Even if you’re quaking in your dancing shoes, LOOK confident and your audience will be impressed.
The thing is, the audience wasn’t at the rehearsals. They don’t know what the routine was supposed to be, so they won’t spot a mistake unless you make it obvious by frowning – or stopping!
If you can maintain a look of confidence, smiling brightly no matter what craziness is happening lower down, the audience will probably never notice you goofed.
Almost everyone is nervous before a show, it can’t be avoided. Learn to display confidence every time you dance, even in dance classes, and it will become a natural part of your dancing. A word of warning – if you dance with poise and confidence in class, some students will call you a show-off. Those students want you to giggle when you make a mistake and fluff your final poses.
You have to decide what’s more important – fitting in with the others, or becoming a real dancer who gives great performances? If you dance like that in class,you won’t easily shift a gear once you’re on stage. Serious dancers will always try to dance in class as they would on stage (unless they’re conserving their energy for a later performance).
My teacher was adamant that we must pretend we were performing at all times. I found that to be excellent advice – although it has got me into trouble! When I started performing flamenco, audience members often assumed I was the troupe leader instead of my teacher. I knew that wasn’t true – my teacher was a far better dancer. The difference was, I was taught to dance confidently, whereas she was rather shy and tended to dance with her eyes downcast. So when we danced together, I grabbed the audience’s attention. They never noticed that my feet were not as precise or my hand movements less graceful – all they could see were my smile, my posture, and my ‘attack’ and enthusiasm.
Of course, it’s also important to rehearse, so you don’t have to worry about your steps. But that’s not the biggest contributor to your ‘confidence score’!